Too Little Too Late: 10 People Share Red Flags They Saw In Their Exes
Breaking up is never easy, but sometimes it’s necessary to end a relationship that is not healthy or fulfilling. Looking back on past relationships, there may have been red flags that were missed or ignored. Here are the red flags 9 people saw in their exes.
Financial Irresponsibility
“While we were still dating, she decided to take $100,000 out of her retirement account and take 8 members of her family on a two-week trip to the Grand Canyon. ‘They’re getting older, and they may never see it in their lifetime, so I want to provide this gift for them’. Yeah, except now you’ve just decimated your retirement.”
Artificial Similarities
“She went out of her way to artificially like everything I liked. Bands, foods, clothing brands, etc. It even went as far as her adopting my exact political beliefs. Weird.”
Being the Ex
“She dated me. Big red flag.”
Hide And Seek
“Looking back, the fact that my ex treated our relationship like a game of hide and seek should have been a warning. He was always hiding and I was constantly seeking – it should have been a giant, neon red flag.”
Lack of Savings
“She made $300K in one year and put $0 in savings.”
Pushing for a New Image
“That she wanted me to dress a lot nicer than I did. Not that I dressed like a slob on our dates. Although one time I went in jeans and a t-shirt when she invited me out for a meal last minute and I didn’t have enough time to get in what I normally wear on dates, which was slacks and a polo shirt. She liked men who wore jewelry and cologne. I think she wanted me to be like that. I do sometimes wear jewelry, but I rarely do.”
Attention Seeking
“Her need for attention from other men and addiction to social media.”
Isolation
“She was very pushy in the beginning to get me away from my friends, family, and home.”
Words vs. Actions
“He was good with words but not with actions.”
Saying His Exes Were All Crazy
“He used to say all his ex-girlfriends were crazy. Later, I learned this guy could push you to your limit until you just explode, and then he can call you “crazy” and victimize himself.”
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