Understanding the Baby Blues After Birth

Becoming a parent is an exciting and joyous experience, but it also comes with challenges. One common challenge that many new parents face is experiencing feelings of sadness and mood changes after their baby is born.

With such a huge life change, who wouldn’t expect to feel a little overwhelmed and emotional? However, for some new parents, these feelings can become more than just the typical “baby blues” and may develop into postpartum depression. Understanding the difference and when to ask for help is essential as you learn to navigate parenthood.

What Are the Baby Blues?

The baby blues are a common experience that many new mothers have after giving birth. They typically start within the first few days after delivery and last up to two weeks. 

Symptoms occur secondary to the sudden postpartum hormonal changes, including a sharp and sudden drop in estrogen and progesterone. In addition, moms are dealing with the physical changes that happen after giving birth as their bodies recover, and they navigate breastfeeding (if chosen).

Common Symptoms of the Baby Blues Include

• Mood swings, where you feel emotional highs and lows throughout the day
• Tearfulness (happy one minute, then crying the next)
• Anxiety and restlessness
• Irritability
• Difficulty sleeping or sleeping too much
• Trouble concentrating

These feelings can leave a mom feeling “off” and be intense, but are usually short-lived and do not significantly interfere with daily functioning. Up to 80% of new mothers will experience some form of baby blues. Plus, up to 10% of partners can also experience baby blues.

Baby Blues vs Postpartum Depression: A Comparison

While the baby blues may share some common symptoms with postpartum depression, there are critical differences between the two. Postpartum depression is a more severe and long-lasting mood disorder that can occur anytime within the first year after giving birth.

The most significant difference between the baby blues and postpartum depression is how it affects everyday life. The baby blues may make you feel overwhelmed, but it usually doesn’t interfere with your ability to care for yourself and your baby. Postpartum depression, on the other hand, can significantly impact daily functioning and make it difficult to complete tasks or bond with your baby.

Postpartum Depression Symptoms Include:

• Persistent sadness or feelings of hopelessness
• Loss of interest in activities once enjoyed
• Changes in appetite and weight
• Increased irritability and anger
• Difficulty bonding with the baby
• Thoughts of harming oneself or the baby

It’s important to note that postpartum depression can also occur in fathers and partners, with similar symptoms to those experienced by new mothers.

Risk Factors for Developing Postpartum Depression

Baby blues happen to most new moms. Thankfully, postpartum depression, or psychosis, is much rarer and occurs in 1 out of 7 mothers. Certain factors put someone at a higher risk of developing it. These include:

• Personal or family history of mood disorders
• Lack of social support 
• Extreme stressors in life (homelessness, poverty, loss, etc.)
• Complications during pregnancy, childbirth, or breastfeeding
• Financial difficulties or unplanned pregnancy
• History of abuse or trauma

If you have any of these risk factors, it’s essential to be aware and take extra care of your mental health after giving birth.

When To Get Help for Postpartum Mood Disorders

If you are experiencing symptoms of postpartum depression that interfere with your daily life and last for more than two weeks, it’s essential to seek help from a healthcare professional. They can provide support and resources to help you navigate this challenging time.

Additionally, if you have thoughts of harming yourself or your sweet baby, seek emergency medical care immediately. It’s crucial to remember that you are not alone and that postpartum mood disorders are a common experience for many new parents. Talking to a healthcare professional, therapist, or support group can provide valuable resources and support as you work toward recovery.

How To Start Feeling Better

Recovering from baby blues will often occur without the need for intervention. However, that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t seek help if you are struggling. Additionally, there are steps moms can take at home to support their mental health:

• Ask for support: Don’t be afraid to contact friends and family for help with tasks or emotional support. This might involve them watching the baby while you sleep, making a meal, or simply listening to your feelings.
• Prioritize self-care: As a new parent, putting your needs on the back burner is easy. But taking care of yourself is essential for your mental and physical well-being. Make time for activities that bring you joy or help you relax, such as bathing, walking, or meeting friends.
• Talk to your partner or support system: Don’t be afraid to share how you feel with your partner, family, or close friends. They can provide emotional support and help you care for yourself and your baby.
• Get enough rest: Getting enough sleep is crucial for physical and mental health. It’ll help you feel like a better mother. Try to nap when the baby naps, and ask for help so you can focus on resting.
• Nourish your body: Eating a balanced and healthy diet can help boost your mood and physical energy. Avoid skipping meals or relying on junk food, as it can make you feel worse in the long run.
• Join a mom group: Hanging out with moms in the trenches with you can provide valuable support and understanding, helping you feel like you’re not alone. Consider joining a local mom group or online community.

Remember, there is no shame in asking for help. Taking care of your mental health is as important as your physical health, especially during the postpartum period. By recognizing the signs and reaching out for support, you can start feeling better and enjoy your new role as a mother.

Prevention Tips for Postpartum Mood Disorders

While there is no guaranteed way to prevent postpartum mood disorders, there are some things you can do to reduce your risk:

• Attend prenatal appointments: Regular check-ups during pregnancy can help identify any potential complications that may increase the risk of postpartum depression.
• Plan ahead: Have a support system in place before giving birth. This may involve arranging for help with household tasks or lining up support from family and friends.
• Take care of yourself during pregnancy: Prioritizing self-care, eating well, exercising, and getting enough rest can help reduce stress and improve overall mental health.
• Educate yourself about postpartum mood disorders: Understanding the symptoms and risk factors can help you recognize when you may need to seek help.
• Talk to your healthcare provider: If you have a history of mood disorders or other risk factors, discuss them with your healthcare provider before giving birth. They can provide additional support and resources.

By taking proactive steps and seeking support when needed, it is possible to prevent or reduce the severity of postpartum mood disorders.

Baby Blues FAQ

Are Baby Blues Normal?

Yes, baby blues are a common experience for many new mothers. It is estimated that up to 80% of new moms will experience some degree of mood changes after giving birth. However, if these feelings persist for more than two weeks or interfere with daily functioning, it may be a sign of postpartum depression.

I Love My Child; Why Am I So Sad?

Despite loving your child, the postpartum period can be overwhelming and challenging for many new mothers. Hormonal changes, lack of sleep, and added responsibilities can all contribute to feelings of sadness and overwhelm. It’s essential to take care of yourself during this time and seek help if needed.

Will My Baby Blues Go Away on Their Own?

In most cases, baby blues usually go away within a few weeks as hormonal levels return to normal and you adjust to your new role as a mother. However, if symptoms persist or worsen, it’s essential to seek help from a healthcare professional.

Can My Partner Experience Baby Blues?

Yes, postpartum mood disorders can also affect partners of new mothers. Encourage your partner to seek support if they are struggling.

Is the Baby Blues a Mild Mood Disorder?

The baby blues are considered a mild mood disorder but should be monitored closely. While it typically resolves on its own, in some cases, it can progress to postpartum depression or other mood disorders such as psychosis.

Is Medication Necessary for Treating Baby Blues?

Medication is not typically necessary for treating baby blues. On the other hand, your healthcare provider may prescribe medication to help treat postpartum depression.

This article originally appeared on Wealth of Geeks.