The man, who we’ll call Randolph, is 29 years old, and said that the obstetrician they have been seeing is physically imposing and has a hostile attitude towards him.
The situation worsened as the doctor started treating him in a belittling way, making him feel like an idiot, and calling him by his last name in a cold and disrespectful manner.
Randolph shared, “My wife seems to really like him. He always gives her compliments about how she looks and congratulates her for being so great at everything related to the pregnancy.
One person chimed in, “It’s her body, she gets to choose the doctor. You saying she’s ’emotional and irrational’ for having this boundary makes me think her doctor thinks poorly of you for a reason.”
Some people also questioned the husband’s motives, with one person stating, “It sounds like [Randolph] may have made up his mind about the doctor before actually meeting him.